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Post by Scott Ross on Jun 25, 2012 21:39:40 GMT -5
I would appreciate it if people on this board would stop the search for who they think it is. Let me deal with it the right way, without the board deciding and starting rumor! I am contacting Scott Ross, with who it is. I feel the damage has been done. I do not want this man to go to court. Being removed from the work is enough punishment. I feel very pressure and scared so just let me take it one day at a time please. My email is listed at the bottom of all my posts, but here it is: bescottross@aol.com Always glad to help!
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Post by Greg on Jun 26, 2012 8:37:31 GMT -5
I DO not want to contact the police or authorities or take anyone to court. I just want to know that it will never happen to anyone again. I have had professional help and I have come as far as I can. I just need people to understand and not judge. Because of this I have many issues with the friends and some of my family. At the end of the day I know that they would be there for me. So thank you people for the positive advice, but I must do the right thing now. I don't feel bitter just feel nothing. Have him killed or permanently incarcerated/isolated. Just getting him out of the fellowship and into the public might not be the right thing to do.
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Post by Turn him in on Jun 26, 2012 8:45:41 GMT -5
Have him killed or permanently incarcerated/isolated. Just getting him out of the fellowship and into the public might not be the right thing to do. AMEN! Does the name Jerry Sandusky ring a bell!!!!!
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Post by sharonw on Jun 26, 2012 9:36:53 GMT -5
I would appreciate it if people on this board would stop the search for who they think it is. Let me deal with it the right way, without the board deciding and starting rumor! I am contacting Scott Ross, with who it is. I feel the damage has been done. I do not want this man to go to court. Being removed from the work is enough punishment. I feel very pressure and scared so just let me take it one day at a time please. My email is listed at the bottom of all my posts, but here it is: bescottross@aol.com Always glad to help! thank you Scott for picking up on this severe distress! TAS, I feel that you can take this one step at a time and Scott will help you in each step until you reach the help that you need. My concerns and prayers are for your continued strength as you go through these stages of necessity to reach healing.
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Post by Query on Jul 7, 2012 2:00:13 GMT -5
A senior worker that was in Tasmania and Victoria, stayed in my parents home. We were going to a mission that was an hour away. He insisted in riding in the back of the car with my sister and I. My father had asked him several times that he should sit in the front and my mother would sit in the back with my sister and I. On the way to the mission he touched my leg several times, even though I moved away he kept doing it. On the way home he continued to do it. I felt very confused as I was a teenage girl and had feelings. He never did it to my sister, she had a bigger voice than me. As I know now, they know which victim to pray on . This same man was in the work with the other VIC worker than has been convicted. He used to stand outside my sister and my bedroom door late after my parents went to bed. I can only thank my sister, and her big voice that protected me from him. He is still a senior worker in the work today! I am too scared to ever contact anyone about this, but I thought posting on here is a start. I have only recently told my parents of this, who are still professing. And they are livid! Scott did this person contact you as they indicated they would? If so, will you give us the assurance that you are following up in a proper manner? If not, is it a scurrilous allegation to blacken the names of more Vic workers? You must realise that this allegation by Tas Girl (who remains anonymous here like me) means that several of our Vic workers are now under a cloud. It is not hard to guess at the likely person accused of grooming a minor and perhsps worse. Thanks Scott.
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 7, 2012 14:58:28 GMT -5
A senior worker that was in Tasmania and Victoria, stayed in my parents home. We were going to a mission that was an hour away. He insisted in riding in the back of the car with my sister and I. My father had asked him several times that he should sit in the front and my mother would sit in the back with my sister and I. On the way to the mission he touched my leg several times, even though I moved away he kept doing it. On the way home he continued to do it. I felt very confused as I was a teenage girl and had feelings. He never did it to my sister, she had a bigger voice than me. As I know now, they know which victim to pray on . This same man was in the work with the other VIC worker than has been convicted. He used to stand outside my sister and my bedroom door late after my parents went to bed. I can only thank my sister, and her big voice that protected me from him. He is still a senior worker in the work today! I am too scared to ever contact anyone about this, but I thought posting on here is a start. I have only recently told my parents of this, who are still professing. And they are livid! Scott did this person contact you as they indicated they would? If so, will you give us the assurance that you are following up in a proper manner? If not, is it a scurrilous allegation to blacken the names of more Vic workers? You must realise that this allegation by Tas Girl (who remains anonymous here like me) means that several of our Vic workers are now under a cloud. It is not hard to guess at the likely person accused of grooming a minor and perhsps worse. Thanks Scott. No, TAS GIRL has not contacted me. She is still welcome to do so of course.
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Post by Mary on Jul 7, 2012 20:58:15 GMT -5
Not doubting her situation but what did not make sense to me was that TASgirl wanted to keep it secret and the offender not exposed but came on a public board with great detail about the offender where there are many people who can work out who he is. Surely a quiet PM to Scott and not coming on this board would have been more what she was looking for if she wanted to keep the offender from being known.
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Post by aussie22 on Jul 7, 2012 22:06:10 GMT -5
Is it right that a letter is being sent out to all people in Tas. and Victoria? Even to those that are no longer in fellowship for whatever reason. Is it being sent by the police, workers or the elders? Just wondering why we have not received anything as yet. We had him(them) stay in our home in the years they were in our area and the friends, elders and workers were well aware of this.
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Post by TAS GIRL on Jul 7, 2012 22:16:19 GMT -5
To those who have commented on me this board, get a life. This has not happened to you so you do not know how it feels. I said that I would contact Scott Ross, which I most certainly am going to. IN MY OWN TIME. SO BACK OFF!!! You can guess all you want about who you think it is but you are all wrong, VERY WRONG. If they the workers are under a cloud then they want to be very scared about the many who have information, not just me. I don't care about them this is about me I have been scared all my life and comments are not going to scare me. I have witnesses, so just keep your comments to yourself.! I will not be writing in this board again, but contacting Scott Ross.
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Post by TG on Jul 17, 2012 6:10:16 GMT -5
Dear Scott Ross,
Can you please get back to me by email
Regards
TG
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 17, 2012 8:32:42 GMT -5
Dear Scott Ross, Can you please get back to me by email Regards TG I don't have access to your email address TG. If you send an email to me at: bescottross@aol.com I will be able to correspond with you.
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Post by sharonw on Jul 17, 2012 9:34:42 GMT -5
Dear Scott Ross, Can you please get back to me by email Regards TG I don't have access to your email address TG. If you send an email to me at: bescottross@aol.com I will be able to correspond with you. Scott, it appears that some folks may think by writing here on TMB in the light of what's troubling them, that they think you can return an answer to them....they evidently do not understand that we use the PM way of private conversation on TMB or that they must at least give their email addy or their snail mail addy in order that you can do private conversation with them....is there any other way to help these folks, they're already under great strain?
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 17, 2012 11:49:09 GMT -5
They can register here on the TMB and send a PM to me that way as well.
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Post by TG on Jul 17, 2012 20:08:52 GMT -5
Hi Scott Yes I have sent an email to the address you provided but did not get a reply.
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 17, 2012 21:24:57 GMT -5
Hi Scott Yes I have sent an email to the address you provided but did not get a reply. Could you try sending the same email again? I deleted my spam folder earlier after a brief look and it may have ended up in there. I will watch for your email. Sorry about that!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2012 12:41:25 GMT -5
The big problem with reporting CSA is that some people are going to label you a gossip and trouble maker. And the fear of displeasing relatives is strong especially if the victim is young.
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Post by sharonw on Jul 19, 2012 15:23:29 GMT -5
The big problem with reporting CSA is that some people are going to label you a gossip and trouble maker. And the fear of displeasing relatives is strong especially if the victim is young. Very true, also the younger the victim the harder it is for them to reason out that they have nothing to be guilty about and the guilt the perp puts on them makes them even more afraid.....though I'm not saying that older victims don't feel guilty in that they feel unreasonably dirty....thus older victims tend to want to just take a bath and huddle in their own little corner....
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 22, 2012 17:41:21 GMT -5
From the BTS board: WINGS has had the following letter since it was first being distributed to families. It was not posted prior to this as we were wanting to give the workers there plenty of time to contact the friends and discuss this issue with them.
We have gotten some requests for this information from friends and ex members of the fellowship who have not received this information, so have decided that it would be best if it were posted so it can be shared as needed.
This is an ongoing investigation, and the contact details for the investigator have been given in this letter by David Leitch. He is encouraging the friends to contact the investigator with any information they may have regarding this issue.
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Dear Friends,
It is with deep sadness that I tell you that I have stood down from the Work.
The police have questioned me about something which happened when I was a youth. This is years before and completely unrelated to my time in the ministry. I am making every effort to cooperate with the police investigation. It would not be proper to make further public comment about it whilst the investigation continues.
After I began to serve God, I tried to address the issues from my past and a little later, sought professional counseling. I felt this matter had been settled years ago. However, now that this matter has been raised, I feel it is not appropriate for me to continue in the ministry.
I want to thank you for your love and support during my time in the work. I am very grieved for the distress and anxiety that I have caused to any person affected by my past.
Chris Chandler 09/06/2012
Dear Friends,
In conjunction with Chris Chandlers' letter above, I advise that the police have asked me for a list of homes that Chris may have stayed in during the years that he was in your field. I intend to provide the police with all that they require. This means you may receive a call or a visit from the police. Feel free to respond to their enquiries.
Below are the listed fields that Chris was in during his time in Australia, and his companions.
1991 Wodonga Jack Phillips 1st year in the Work. 1992 Shepparton Alan Cain then Jack Philips 1993 Launceston Ray Cruickshank, Evan Jones 1994 Ltn N/W Coast Ray Cruickshank, Evan Jones 1995 Wodonga Ernie Barry 1996 Wodonga Alan Ritson 1/2 year 2003 Ltn N/W Coast Ray Cruickshank 2004 Ltn N/W Coast Ray Cruickshank
If you have any concerns you may contact the Workers in your field, the Police direct (Sergeant Darren Eldridge 5131 7046) or myself.
David Leitch 0417 535 925 12/06/2012
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Post by eh? on Jul 22, 2012 20:19:16 GMT -5
To those of us in other parts of the world, we would list these as 6/9/12 6/12/12 (June, correct?)
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Post by Scott Ross on Jul 22, 2012 22:48:00 GMT -5
To those of us in other parts of the world, we would list these as 6/9/12 6/12/12 (June, correct?) Yep...... They look weird to me too!!
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Post by Taswegan on Jul 23, 2012 3:56:14 GMT -5
The police were provided with a full list of all the fields EB was in during his time in the work.
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Post by harumph on Jul 23, 2012 6:11:02 GMT -5
Fat lot of good that will do. Even assuming the police understood workers and fields, are you imagining Mr Plod somehow figuring who all the friends in a certain field are, and doing his rounds calling on each one? Ploddy can't even identify the group whose followers he's hunting down by any recognizable name. It may all sound quite open, but the veil of secrecy is compounded by the fear of the friends to tell the secrets.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2012 6:14:33 GMT -5
Thoughts and best wishes with any victim(s) and Chris as they seek resolution for happenings of the past.
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Post by Sad Sack on Jul 23, 2012 22:27:24 GMT -5
Has Chris Chandler been removed from his Facebook account?
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Post by JO on Jul 24, 2012 0:50:48 GMT -5
The police were provided with a full list of all the fields EB was in during his time in the work. The police have asked David for a list of homes that Chris may have stayed in during the years that he was in each field. Was a list of homes Ernie Barry may have stayed in provided to the police?
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Post by aussie22 on Jul 24, 2012 5:46:48 GMT -5
As far as we are aware there was no list of families and homes given to police where E.B. may have stayed. Over the years he stayed in our home and we were not even notified about anything, even when he was removed from the work, and he had admitted to what he had done.
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Post by JO on Jul 24, 2012 15:46:34 GMT -5
Its interesting that so much effort is going in to finding the dirt on CC, when EB... "...admitted to the overseers of both VIC and WA that there are other victims, but only 1 brave soul was willing to come forward & have him charged. We hear of others who wanted to come forward, but apparently changed their minds after visits from those in authority." (From the letter sent out by the "concerned professing man") professing.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=wings&action=display&thread=19269&page=1
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Post by TG on Jul 24, 2012 22:24:12 GMT -5
Hi Scott Ross. Can you please email me? TG. I have sent you another email.
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