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Post by Sylvestra on Oct 23, 2007 20:48:56 GMT -5
I've told JL that since he won't stop sending me e-mails that I am going to post them in public if he continues.
Here is his most recent one......(and I think I've told him to stop writing to me at least 4 times. I have yet to be able to find out if I can block him from my PM.)
I've sent PMs to lots of people on this board - not one of them has reacted like you have.
Jesse
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Post by eyedeetentee on Oct 23, 2007 21:00:31 GMT -5
That sounds exactly like what git said to Jessi in their argumentative pm's.
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Post by Jesse_Lackman on Oct 23, 2007 21:18:28 GMT -5
Sylvestra, I haven't sent you any e-mails, if you want to block private messages go to your private messages inbox and click "preferences" on the right, there you will find a box in which to put the names of those you don't want to recieve PMs from. Jesse
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Post by A story of two Jesses on Oct 23, 2007 21:31:47 GMT -5
Sylvestra, I haven't sent you any e-mails, if you want to block private messages go to your private messages inbox and click "preferences" on the right, there you will find a box in which to put the names of those you don't want to recieve PMs from. ...tugging at his ski-mask, the gunman waved the weapon at my wife, signaling her to sit next to me on the couch. "You asked for it"; he muttered through his shrinking cigarette; "If you didn't want me here, you would have locked your front door when you got home."...
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Post by _ on Oct 23, 2007 21:42:21 GMT -5
I've told JL that since he won't stop sending me e-mails that I am going to post them in public if he continues. Here is his most recent one......(and I think I've told him to stop writing to me at least 4 times. I have yet to be able to find out if I can block him from my PM.) I've sent PMs to lots of people on this board - not one of them has reacted like you have.
Jesse Sylvestra, How is he being harrassing? what is he saying in the PMs that you find questionable? Please be specific...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2007 21:50:09 GMT -5
After you ask someone to stop sending PMs, then any PM is harassment, no need for details and specifics. I've told JL that since he won't stop sending me e-mails that I am going to post them in public if he continues. Here is his most recent one......(and I think I've told him to stop writing to me at least 4 times. I have yet to be able to find out if I can block him from my PM.) I've sent PMs to lots of people on this board - not one of them has reacted like you have.
Jesse Sylvestra, How is he being harrassing? what is he saying in the PMs that you find questionable? Please be specific...
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Post by e doctor on Oct 23, 2007 21:53:27 GMT -5
Methinks Bryan (aka _._) missed his 6:00 PM dose.
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Post by _ on Oct 23, 2007 21:56:25 GMT -5
After you ask someone to stop sending PMs, then any PM is harassment, no need for details and specifics. oh whateeever... the only way i could see it as harrassing would be due to the content of the messages ... i would hardly think that a few extra messages from someone is harrassing... but we will wait for specifics... but really who cares, once she knows how to block Jesse...
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Post by _ on Oct 23, 2007 21:56:42 GMT -5
Methinks Bryan (aka _._) missed his 6:00 PM dose. dose of what?
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Post by Jesse_Lackman on Oct 24, 2007 6:15:13 GMT -5
Sylvestra,
I don't understand, but I'm sorry anyway.
Jesse
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Post by _ on Oct 24, 2007 15:40:17 GMT -5
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Post by gloryintruth on Oct 24, 2007 17:46:05 GMT -5
I've told JL that since he won't stop sending me e-mails that I am going to post them in public if he continues. Here is his most recent one......(and I think I've told him to stop writing to me at least 4 times. I have yet to be able to find out if I can block him from my PM.)
I speak in defence of Jesse. He often sends me PM's as well, and I have always found them thoughtful, informative and interesting. It is with confidence in Jesse's integrity, and it is with trust in his honour that I can say that the content of Jesse's PM's would not be objectionable, emotive, or mean-spirited. I imagine he has sent you PM's of a discursive nature, where he comments on certain concepts.
I get a lot of PM's. I don't know why, because I don't respond to 90% of them, but I do. Most of the PM's I recieve are from folks who wish to advise me of something, tell me something, or share a nugget of wisdom. I read the PM. I leave the PM. I do not consider myself harassed by those who send me these PM's.
In other words, it boils down to a matter of perspective.
I've sent PMs to lots of people on this board - not one of them has reacted like you have.
Jesse, I think our conversation about the objective mindset and behaviour as opposed to the subjective+emotive+intuitive mindset and worldview will explain why Eddy has blown out of proportion the issue: "harassing"; a whole new thread; "can't block him". What a major issue!
By the way Eddy, how is this related to the Friends and Workers? This is the second time in a couple of weeks where you have started a personal thread - remember that this board is ONLY for discussion of Friends and Worker issues, and if you want to discuss things in private, you need to do that in the private arena of PMs. O.K.? Unless of course the standards you have strenuously pushed on me do not apply to you?
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Post by las logged out on Oct 24, 2007 17:51:37 GMT -5
I think PM's is a bad feature because that can be used for illegal purposes...by some who are not 2x2 or ex2x2 eh? If you know what i mean this is one reason i didn't continue with my proboards message board I said to myself there is no way i am going to allow illegal activety on my own site where i can do nothing about it
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Post by terry on Oct 24, 2007 19:14:28 GMT -5
The tone or content of a message is incidental to any harrassing claims. If the sender has been told to stop, it's harassement. Harrassement is in the eye of the receiver--by law. Once the sender has been told to stop, he/she has to stop.
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Post by for childish git on Oct 24, 2007 19:46:58 GMT -5
git,
This endless pursuit of anyone not discussing 2x2ism has gone beyond annoying into the realm of childish. My 3-year-old knows better than you do when it's time to quit.
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Post by Sylvestra on Oct 24, 2007 22:35:59 GMT -5
I've told JL that since he won't stop sending me e-mails that I am going to post them in public if he continues. Here is his most recent one......(and I think I've told him to stop writing to me at least 4 times. I have yet to be able to find out if I can block him from my PM.) I've sent PMs to lots of people on this board - not one of them has reacted like you have.
Jesse Sylvestra, How is he being harrassing? what is he saying in the PMs that you find questionable? Please be specific... Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here. I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! Best! Edy
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Post by Sylvestra on Oct 24, 2007 22:41:48 GMT -5
Sylvestra, I haven't sent you any e-mails, if you want to block private messages go to your private messages inbox and click "preferences" on the right, there you will find a box in which to put the names of those you don't want to recieve PMs from. Jesse Jesse, I clicked on your name box on the e-mails, and it takes me back to your account, with a list of the messages that you have posted in the past (10?) days. Do you think someone has hi-jacked your account and is posting as you? This doesn't add up to me! Or, are you the second personality of someone else and don't know when you send e-mails? E
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Post by _ on Oct 24, 2007 22:44:05 GMT -5
Sylvestra, How is he being harrassing? what is he saying in the PMs that you find questionable? Please be specific... Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here. I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! Best! Edy we simply disagree... i find nothing wrong with a few PMs in your inbox... how much effort does it take to delete them without reading their content? less then creating a new thread about it?
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Post by Sylvestra on Oct 24, 2007 22:59:28 GMT -5
Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here. I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! Best! Edy Jesse Lackman, wrote that he didn't sent you any PM e-mail to you. Are you sure you write to the right person? Could it be the other Jessie that PM you and NOT Jesse Lackman? just wondering.Nathan, the name on the "from" box is Jesse Lackman, and when I click on it, it takes me back to his personal account. The other Jessie (whose name is spelled Jessi) also PM's me and it is not her. E
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2007 23:01:38 GMT -5
Nathan9, it was a word game. Jesse said he didn't send any "emails" which was true, but he did send PMs. Jesse and _._ just had a little trouble with the meaning of the word "no". I think Jesse gets it now, but it doesn't look like _._ quite has it yet, but I'm sure he will get there, he seem's a smart fella. Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here. I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! Best! Edy Jesse Lackman, wrote that he didn't sent you any PM e-mail to you. Are you sure you write to the right person? Could it be the other Jessie that PM you and NOT Jesse Lackman? just wondering.
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Post by freedom on Oct 25, 2007 0:24:20 GMT -5
My question is, why do you single out Jesse for not wanting to receive PM's from, if you do not have a problem with the content? Do you not want PM's from ANYBODY? If you are having some preconceived misunderstanding about him, seems the best way to clear it up would be through communication. But if you will not even read his PM's, then would you not retain your self-delusion as to what sort of a person he is? Personally, I have a lot of respect for the guy. He is very smart, and it was not his intention to close down the TMB. I can't imagine that reading his messages would do anything other than benefit you. But if you choose to single out someone not to receive messages from, that is your prerogative. I just think that you will be the one losing out here.
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Post by _ on Oct 25, 2007 0:43:20 GMT -5
Nathan9, it was a word game. Jesse said he didn't send any "emails" which was true, but he did send PMs. Jesse and _._ just had a little trouble with the meaning of the word "no". I think Jesse gets it now, but it doesn't look like _._ quite has it yet, but I'm sure he will get there, he seem's a smart fella. Jesse Lackman, wrote that he didn't sent you any PM e-mail to you. Are you sure you write to the right person? Could it be the other Jessie that PM you and NOT Jesse Lackman? just wondering. my name is bryan
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Post by gloryintruth on Oct 25, 2007 6:31:37 GMT -5
In my humble opinion Jesse is a great guy who has interesting things to say. I enjoy reading his PM's and I find it difficult to imagine that he would have written anything inflammatory, offensive or mean-spirited.
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Post by gloryintruth on Oct 25, 2007 6:38:28 GMT -5
Sylvestra, How is he being harrassing?Good question!Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here.In other words she has no idea what Jesse is writing, she's just taken umbrage that a Friend would dare send her any messages privately. If I had to take a guess, (and mind you, this scenario's only a guess) I reckon Jesse's sent her a few PMs to which she has not replied. Then she's shot back a response saying "don't PM me ever again" and Jesse has asked for clarification which she's refused to give. I imagine Jesse has PM'ed back a few times asking for an explanation - "why don't you want me to PM you" and she has consistently refused to state her reasons.I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! But you told me once that you just skip my posts, and all posts that challenge your worldview on the TMB. Why can't you do the same to Jesse's PM's?
Oh right. Sorry. Twilight zone moment. I'm talking to Edy who has one rule for herself and another standard for everyone else.
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Post by please git on Oct 25, 2007 8:20:22 GMT -5
git, could you stop being a jerk for even one day?
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Post by Grow up on Oct 25, 2007 8:28:02 GMT -5
Hi Bryan, Specifics of content are not significant here. I have asked a number of times not to be PM'ed, and they continued after the request (and then demand) was made several times. That is harrassment enough for me! Best! Edy Come on, be a big person. if you don't like them DON'T READ THEM. Delete them. All of the electrons will not make a huge mess on the floor.
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Post by gloryintruth on Oct 25, 2007 18:08:34 GMT -5
git, could you stop being a jerk for even one day?
I'm sorry friend, but that would be impossible. At heart I am nothing except a poor, miserable jerk. I was born a jerk and I shall die a jerk. But I do always hope in the Lord that he will cover over my multitude of sins.
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Post by My God on Oct 25, 2007 20:17:16 GMT -5
What a bunch of control freaks!!!!!! If Edy doesn't want to receive PM's from JL what is that to you? and you? and you? and you?
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