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Post by Jack Assie on Mar 30, 2006 16:19:08 GMT -5
If you had a crush on a worker and wanted to ask them out on a date, how would you do that? I wonder how love affairs develop between 2 workers in a field!
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Post by talk on Mar 30, 2006 18:44:17 GMT -5
If you had a crush on a worker and wanted to ask them out on a date, how would you do that? I wonder how love affairs develop between 2 workers in a field!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 30, 2006 18:56:08 GMT -5
The answer to your question is "it depends." If one were courageous and really felt the onset of true love rather than just lust, they could go to that one they admire, and express that if they were at all unhappy in their work, and were willing to consider other options that you found them very attractive, and could easily consider a life long relationship with them.
If however you only feel lust, then forget it. How do you (or anyone) know the difference? By the glad sacrifice you are willing to make by committing to a life long relationship of love and marriage. But that would take lots of courageous honesty and integrity.
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Post by just me on Jul 30, 2006 0:23:49 GMT -5
If you had a crush on a worker and wanted to ask them out on a date, how would you do that? I wonder how love affairs develop between 2 workers in a field! I reckon ya ask em out just like ANY other person get ahold of em and ask if they would like to meet for a coke and joke or catch a flick and cuisine. geez guy, they ARE only people afterall I would suppose "Love affairs" happen "in the field" just like in the rest of the world, two people spend alot of time together, eventually they talk about stuff besides "work" and next thing ya know, they are in a (gasp) "relationship" good luck
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Post by metoo on Jul 30, 2006 4:00:50 GMT -5
I too feel a deep love for a worker and think the feeling is mutual. I wish I knew how to go about making a move.
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Post by sm on Jul 30, 2006 4:48:50 GMT -5
Hmmm tough question/situation....
You have to take into consideration I think, that the *average* worker, isn't likely I don't think, to take anyone up on a date while in the work. As.. I think the average worker believes it's wrong for him/her to do so, according to the beliefs of the church.
IMO I'd approach it something like this... Maybe drop them a note/letter, or..if you've got the guts, give them a call.. And get them thinking so to speak. Say something to the effect..if they ever question their calling, and sometime in the future find themselves under different circumstances, to get in touch with you, because given the opportunity you'd like to get to know them on a more personal level than worker/friend.
You don't want to come on too strong I don't think, because you'd hate for rumor to get out that *Gasp* So and so has a Thing for a worker.
And.. if they believe they are doing what they truely want to do.. you don't want to interfere with that.
On the other hand, if they've had their thoughts...questions... It might get them thinking about the possibilities.
JMO...
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Post by jxr on Jul 30, 2006 9:01:54 GMT -5
I'd ask: Why would you want to have a worker around when you're out on a date?
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Post by just me on Jul 30, 2006 13:16:03 GMT -5
I'd ask: Why would you want to have a worker around when you're out on a date? now THAT is FUNNNNNY but seriously, just ask em to go for a coke and conversation in a freindship type setting, get em talking and go from there. they are ONLY people, I am sure if they prefer to NOT date it will be abundantly clear during the conversation. Good luck
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2006 14:10:24 GMT -5
I too feel a deep love for a worker and think the feeling is mutual. I wish I knew how to go about making a move. Genuine love between two people is beautiful (and a gift from God) If the feelings are mutual as you suggest, about the kindest thing you can do for the worker is make oppurtunities for this love to develop. However what you can count on is the entire wrath of the 2x2 organization counteracting this love. Find a way to get arround it!! Real love is innovative.
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