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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 12, 2020 21:22:06 GMT -5
You go to any source you can find . I am shocked The soonest time to name is important , cause where is the perp mitigation further damage . I am shocked . Best not to speak until YOU ARE THE VICTIM !š¢
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2020 22:14:25 GMT -5
YOU ABSOLUTELY DO NOT GO TO THE POLICE YOU GO TO THE HOSPITAL ., NOT THE POLICE and you donāt go to the workerās . The police come to you . Ya donāt drag a victim to a police station . If the victim is a female , the entire group will be FEMALE from police to counsel from sex abuse team and a female doctor . If you are a man you will have male police , male doctor and male support team . You donāt ask questions , putting anyone in a cloud of questions . You let the victim talk when they feel safe and process the kit . You are given 3 options which I am not going to address right now . I am speechless at your comments , as you donāt understand the process .. The psychologists comes again be it a male victim or a female . You get so many tests done and vaccinations to prevent STDāS They continue shots in your arms every 3 months . You get a vaccination right away for HIV . You cannot do that at a police station . . You are in a quiet room with sofas and soft lights . You the victim speaks when they can get past the trauma . You should know that . I guess to understand you must be a victim . Been there done that . They bring tea or coffee or water and or juice . Blanketās , what ever you need . You donāt push the victim , they wait till that poor soul can speak . I hope no way on here endures the trauma ! we've had people go to the police first then the hospital and we have had people go to the hospital then to the police the point is you don't go on social media to report a rape until you've done the other things first....no one on TMB can help you right after a rape happens....
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 9:19:14 GMT -5
If you cannot go or have access to hospital . Once again you up that name anywhere ASAP to make sure that perpetrator does not repeat ever again . Point being when they started the new CSA GUIDE LINE!!!!!!!! I wonder if the had a victim sitting in same room and explaining . You out that NAME AS SO AS YOU CAN HOWEVER YOU CAN ! Where you can , get the name out because they travel to another home . That is my opinion only Because you have a small time frame for them to test 48 hours . I am truly sorry š if that darkness was in your life , I understand the pain . I am absolutely done with this conversation right now . Police cannot do a kit or give vaccinations . If I was not under a court order , facing jail their names would already be on here . Info needs to put out ASAP . This is my OPINION ONLY . The police can be set to the victim .
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 9:29:45 GMT -5
You might be surprised as to who might be on TMB and they feel safe talking to that person . Someone that has also been assaulted . Remaining hidden on here . Again 8 out of 9 in our family were abused The didāt talk to me immediately . But they did offer up after they read the first part of the book . I was horrified and appalled . Some of them told me the story . Some off their stories are in the book . My editors know as I got permission . Again the is my opinion only .
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 9:36:27 GMT -5
Best to stay off here today , a bit of my paw is showing nails . So back to the nursing station and give then my phone .
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 10:19:51 GMT -5
Dragging a 2 year old into a police station . Not good . Just adding more trauma . Sometimes and often times we have not always seen the person face to face . But maybe some will speak on here in a pm . 1 word can make or break someone . Gggrr
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2020 10:50:06 GMT -5
Dragging a 2 year old into a police station . Not good . Just adding more trauma . Sometimes and often times we have not always seen the person face to face . But maybe some will speak on here in a pm . 1 word can make or break someone . Gggrr there is no mandate to get someone to the hospital for a rape that i am aware of there is however a mandate to report CSA to the police or go to jail....
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 11:05:31 GMT -5
Yes there is in Canada šØš¦ By law if you are a medical person such as police psychiatric , psychologist and nurse , doctor or a human that cares . Report it , the professionals are mandated by law .
If you are a true caring loving person that knows , up the name and save another . Why hide it , would you prefer to keep yourself safe instead of a small child .
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 11:07:48 GMT -5
Wally do you have kids ? All my cuzās wives gained a part of their lives back after they read . They were finally able too speak .
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 13, 2020 11:11:32 GMT -5
Child sex exploitation is on the rise in Canada during the pandemic
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Post by BobWilliston on Jul 13, 2020 19:47:05 GMT -5
Dragging a 2 year old into a police station . Not good . Just adding more trauma . Sometimes and often times we have not always seen the person face to face . But maybe some will speak on here in a pm . 1 word can make or break someone . Gggrr there is no mandate to get someone to the hospital for a rape that i am aware of there is however a mandate to report CSA to the police or go to jail.... No one needs a mandate to do the right thing.
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Post by BobWilliston on Jul 13, 2020 19:49:05 GMT -5
Wally do you have kids ? All my cuzās wives gained a part of their lives back after they read . They were finally able too speak . No, he doesn't have kids. And he is on record here as approving of using kids as political pawns.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2020 23:58:00 GMT -5
Wally do you have kids ? All my cuzās wives gained a part of their lives back after they read . They were finally able too speak . And he is on record here as approving of using kids as political pawns. ummm that would be your sides dept. not mine...
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Post by BobWilliston on Jul 14, 2020 0:06:27 GMT -5
And he is on record here as approving of using kids as political pawns. ummm that would be your sides dept. not mine... It wasn't my side that justified taking kids from parents and putting them in cages to punish the parents.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 14, 2020 0:12:31 GMT -5
ummm that would be your sides dept. not mine... It wasn't my side that justified taking kids from parents and putting them in cages to punish the parents. then your side needs to stop using children as shields to get into this country...
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Post by BobWilliston on Jul 14, 2020 0:33:08 GMT -5
It wasn't my side that justified taking kids from parents and putting them in cages to punish the parents. then your side needs to stop using children as shields to get into this country... I was not a refugee and my children were born American citizens. I'm from the side that accepts refugees FROM the USA.
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Post by curlywurlysammagee on Jul 14, 2020 0:33:51 GMT -5
It wasn't my side that justified taking kids from parents and putting them in cages to punish the parents. then your side needs to stop using children as shields to get into this country... In case you had not noticed Wally, the people south of the border coming north and hoping for a better life are apolitical. Can you understand that?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 14, 2020 0:37:32 GMT -5
then your side needs to stop using children as shields to get into this country... In case you had not noticed Wally, the people south of the border coming north and hoping for a better life are apolitical. Can you understand that? no their not...
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Post by curlywurlysammagee on Jul 14, 2020 0:39:53 GMT -5
In case you had not noticed Wally, the people south of the border coming north and hoping for a better life are apolitical. Can you understand that? no their not... I thought you said you were educated. Please pay attention to your grammar. Of course they are. It is your wishful thinking that makes them political pieces.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 14, 2020 0:48:11 GMT -5
I thought you said you were educated. Please pay attention to your grammar. Of course they are. It is your wishful thinking that makes them political pieces. as if idjitcated people don't make spelling and grammar errors? nice try though
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Post by curlywurlysammagee on Jul 14, 2020 0:51:04 GMT -5
I thought you said you were educated. Please pay attention to your grammar. Of course they are. It is your wishful thinking that makes them political pieces. as if idjitcated people don't make spelling and grammar errors? nice try though Of course they do. What excuse do you use?
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Post by fixit on Jul 14, 2020 1:12:43 GMT -5
Wally, I hope you are not as sloppy with gun target selection as you are with your writing.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 14, 2020 1:16:33 GMT -5
Wally, I hope you are not as sloppy with gun target selection as you are with your writing. mind your business elder....
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Post by BobWilliston on Jul 14, 2020 1:19:34 GMT -5
Wally, I hope you are not as sloppy with gun target selection as you are with your writing. mind your business elder.... What YOU write is the business of your READERS, you know. Your articulation represents you.
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Post by dmmichgood on Jul 14, 2020 1:35:43 GMT -5
In case you had not noticed Wally, the people south of the border coming north and hoping for a better life are apolitical. Can you understand that? no their not... How many of those people south of the border coming north have you ever interviewed as to their reasons, Wally?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 14, 2020 2:12:14 GMT -5
How many of those people south of the border coming north have you ever interviewed as to their reasons, Wally? how many have you interviewed?
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 14, 2020 10:37:55 GMT -5
Shinedown - MONSTERS (Official Video) This chills me . I have a housecoat on now . Itās not cold out . Music plays a huge part in my journey . We think every event has a song
If you stay. Quiet kids and people get hurt . Yes I would up the name and mine if only to save on life the trauma
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Post by 1chinesewhispers on Jul 14, 2020 10:48:37 GMT -5
Wally I think š we are polar opposites and will continue 2 be , not to bad jousting . But ! Perhaps taking human behaviour in university and a victim is the reason . As I said , and stand . I WILL UP MY NAME TO SAVE !!!!!!!!!We all have our convictions
Go ahead start suing my ass . I got nothing other than 3 junkies , who will never work again . The only stable income is from my Glazier Supervisor son-in-law and myself . Believe we eat leftovers a lot .
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