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Post by mod3 on Oct 12, 2009 14:24:16 GMT -5
Let's get the conversation going!
If you are single, what qualities and traits do you seek in a candidate for courtship and marriage?
If you've married, what advice would you give singles on this topic?
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Post by emy on Oct 12, 2009 22:34:17 GMT -5
Good suggestion! Wish I had time to compile an answer but I have to get ready for a wedding this week. (our son's)
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Post by Child of God on Oct 14, 2009 14:07:03 GMT -5
I am looking for someone that is fully committed to God and puts Him first in the daily living.
There are many other things but this is primary. After that I think I need to leave it up to God to guide me in the final choice.
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Post by eyedeetentee on Oct 15, 2009 21:13:11 GMT -5
Looks like a seventh grade dance - all the boys and girls are standing next to the wall looking at their feet while a couple chaperones step in and smile.
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Post by tank on Oct 16, 2009 9:23:40 GMT -5
God is #1 in their life too. I think a good indication of how they really are is to observe them with their parents and other relatives.
As far as looks go, I used to have that a top priority, but now I know better. It is more important to have a beautiful heart and spirit than a cute smile, flawless skin, big breast, and a slim waist.
I'd rather date a girl that can get dirty while communing with God and slop hogs, run a combine, fix fence, gut an elk, scale fish, drive a nail, quote scripture and then likes to get dressed up and treated like a princess too than one who worries about her bun or what the workers would think if they saw her acting like that.
My kind of gal can eat Bologna and cheese sandwiches and be thankful to our savior that we can afford the Bologna.
My kind of gal would treat me the way I deserve to be treated. Like smack me when I belch, yell at me because I tracked mud in the house, remind me of the purpose of the lawn mower in the shed, make me help in the garden, and still cries when I pick her wildflowers for they remind me of her.
to be cont.
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Post by Annan on Oct 16, 2009 19:13:03 GMT -5
If you've married, what advice would you give singles on this topic? Trust your gut feelings. And don't be afraid of taking a chance. If you are afraid to fail or be hurt, then you have predestined yourself to sabotage the relationship. Been there, done that.  Go in joy!  |
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Post by shushy on Oct 21, 2009 16:45:41 GMT -5
Faithfulness, integrity, loyalty, humour, kindness, tactile, passion, a one man woman. Who loves to wine and dine, camp, travel, read, movies, playful, and an excellent conversationalist who loves to explore the mind...........told ya I dont want much... If not Ill settle for other things to gratify my desire for a soul mate. Like 3rd world countries... |
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Post by eyedeetentee on Oct 21, 2009 22:17:48 GMT -5
Or third worlds.
Are you still watching? The show will be starting momentarily.
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Post by shushy on Oct 22, 2009 6:07:02 GMT -5
Nope, I was otherwise occupied...LOL Some people have to work you know, cant sit on tush all day watching "the company" no matter how rivetin. Youuuu 4got to wax!!!!  |
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Post by eyedeetentee on Oct 22, 2009 10:37:15 GMT -5
I waxed last week for the boys downtown. I thought you said you like bristles.
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Post by emy on Oct 22, 2009 15:14:32 GMT -5
You're looking for a WOMAN?? LOL Faithfulness, integrity, loyalty, humour, kindness, tactile, passion, a one man woman. Who loves to wine and dine, camp, travel, read, movies, playful, and an excellent conversationalist who loves to explore the mind...........told ya I dont want much... If not Ill settle for other things to gratify my desire for a soul mate. Like 3rd world countries... |
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Post by emy on Oct 22, 2009 15:22:47 GMT -5
Love your reply, tank. I'll take this a little at a time... as I think of things, and I'm not in the market - just offering advice. #1 would always be someone who loves God above all else - yes, even above you. #2 should be a provider - either of funds for the family or making a home more than just a house. #3 should be a good parent, if you want children. For yourself, look for a "best friend", someone you can talk over anything and everything with. These things will get you through the more difficult times when love fades. Yes, it will, but it will come back if you just hang in there. It takes commitment. |
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Post by shushy on Oct 22, 2009 19:14:46 GMT -5
You're looking for a WOMAN?? LOL Faithfulness, integrity, loyalty, humour, kindness, tactile, passion, a one woman man. Who loves to wine and dine, camp, travel, read, movies, playful, and an excellent conversationalist who loves to explore the mind...........told ya I dont want much... If not Ill settle for other things to gratify my desire for a soul mate. Like 3rd world countries... HAHA.........nooooooooooo gosh isnt that flippin typical of my typos or grammer and here I was thinking I had inproved!!! Not looking really anyway just having a laugh. |
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Post by tank on Oct 28, 2009 19:33:33 GMT -5
OK girls, i know this may seem like a stupid question, but what are you waxing?
I wax my fishing poles, gun stocks and even my bath tub to keep the grime off, what are you waxing?
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Post by shushy on Oct 30, 2009 5:35:21 GMT -5
Last time I had my eyebrow waxed the wax ran down over my eye onto my cheek..was lucky no damage was done..
Used to wax a surf board many moons ago
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Post by eyedeetentee on Oct 30, 2009 22:21:09 GMT -5
They call them surf boards now? I have heard guys call them telephone poles but not surf boards.
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Post by tank on Oct 31, 2009 6:30:01 GMT -5
They call them surf boards now? I have heard guys call them telephone poles but not surf boards. Is this slang for something? Can someone draw me a picture? |
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Post by shushy on Nov 1, 2009 6:07:08 GMT -5
You dont understand surf board? ..or are you being feseeciuos.........sorry dont know how to spell it. Long body board? Its long made of fibre glass and colored in bright surfy colors, you use sex wax to wax it...think its called sex wax, so your feet dont slip. WHY DO I FEEL LIKE IM DIGGIN A HOLE FORMYSELF  |
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Post by degem on Nov 1, 2009 18:45:22 GMT -5
are you being naughty again shushy?? |
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Post by eyedeetentee on Nov 4, 2009 21:22:41 GMT -5
She's talking about sex wax, body boards, and boys' boards aka telephone poles or just plain wood. She says they're long. I guess at some point her feet might slip. Scoop, scoop, scoop. Dig that hole.
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Post by tank on Nov 6, 2009 18:22:01 GMT -5
Sex wax? You have gotta be kidding!! Think I need to google that one.
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Post by shushy on Nov 12, 2009 6:42:05 GMT -5
Sex wax is a brand name here of surfy wax.
Gem, naaaa Im too good these days..XX
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Post by tank on Nov 18, 2009 15:22:43 GMT -5
guess sex wax is for real according to google.
and here i thought you gals were flirting with me.
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Post by eyedeetentee on Nov 18, 2009 20:52:32 GMT -5
Wink, wink.
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Post by tank on Jan 20, 2010 19:21:35 GMT -5
Hey Girls
Gotta another question for you.
I got my gal a chicken coop and some conibear traps for Xmas, and to say the least she was not impressed. I want to do something special for her for valentines day, any suggestions as to what I should get her other than flowers and dinner?
I sorta have been in the dog house for a while and really want to make things right.
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Post by Gene on Jan 20, 2010 20:14:04 GMT -5
A new collar and leash?
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Post by landdownunder on Jan 21, 2010 0:37:50 GMT -5
you use sex wax to wax it...think its called sex wax, so your feet dont slip. It's just the NZ accent. It was really 'No.6 wax' ;D |
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Post by landdownunder on Jan 21, 2010 0:42:13 GMT -5
Hey Girls Gotta another question for you. I got my gal a chicken coop and some conibear traps for Xmas, and to say the least she was not impressed. I want to do something special for her for valentines day, any suggestions as to what I should get her other than flowers and dinner? I sorta have been in the dog house for a while and really want to make things right. Maybe the house needs painting? you could get her a big tin of the right colour and a nice new set of paint brushes.. or some fly fishing gear but only if you know some way to keep her quiet for more than 10 minutes. Or 2 tickets to a big game you want to see, only make sure she invites you along ;D Let us know how you make out... |
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